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Bulletins Bulletin : Published and Discussed
Date: Sunday, December 02, 2001
From: kuashaa
Subject:
Proshongo: Biye...Bhaalobasha ebong 'moorgi maarka' jeebon
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Choncholo, biyer shathey kaagojer kono shomporko nei bhai, kaagoj ekta shaakkhee gopal maattro. Islam dhormey (onno dhormer bidhan gulo jaani naa) dujon purush othoba ekjon purush ebong du jon naaree?r shamney jodi khelar chholey o ?raajee? ?kobul? ei jinishgulo ghotey jaay they are considered as husband-wife. Aar biyetey kintu kono specific ?montro? portey hoy na. Mukhey bollei holo. Emonki ekti chheley baa meye jodi kothau husband wife boley ekjon aarekjonkey introduce koriye o dey, they are ?married? then. It is that sensitive. Paper work er bepar ta onek porer kotha. Paper work er kono bhitti nei. Baba Aaadom maa Haowa thekey shuru korey aamder Nobeeji?r biyetey o kono paperwork chhilo naa. Aamar ?aamma-aabba?r o kono paper e shoi kortey hoyechhilo boley shunini. Kaagoj er beparta shompurno jaagotik. Legal matter. Ekta example diley aaro clear hobey bishoyta? ? bangladesh e baaree rent kortey 99% shomoy baareewala?r shathey agreement kortey hoy na. Kono shomoshsha hochchhey na etey. Kintu bideshey agreement taa must, both party?r safety?r jonno. So, biyetey duti moner consent e mukkho. Kaagoj kono ?dukkhito? hobar moto bishoy naa. Thik ei rokom bhabei divorce (one of the most hateful act in Islam) taa o mukher kothatei hoye jaay. Kaagoj kolom er konoi dorkar hoyna. Taarpor o dorkar hoy, keno hoy? Ghoon dhora ei shomajey nijer nirapotta nishchit korar jonney. Eta aaropito ekta bepar. Maanusher sreeshti.

Biye naa korey thaka jaabey na keno oboshshoi jaabey. Eta niye torko korar kono orthoi hoy na jodi religiously naa nen. If you involve religion in it, taaholey moral ebong ethics er proshno eshey jaabey. Ei bishsho brommhandey ekmaattro maanush e biyer maaddhomey jeeboneky shommreeddho korey. Ekhaney keu jodi ?moorgi?r moto baa ?paakhee?r moto jeebon jaapon kortey chaay. Kortey paarbey. Kintu bhaai aami maanusher jeebon chaai. Moorgi hobar shokh nei. Shukh thakuk aar naa thakuk. Aami ki bojhatey paarlam Arif bhai?

Bhaalobasha ebong ghreena duto ek i jinish - eta khub kothin ekta statement. Aami jeta bujhi kaaukey jemon bhaalobasha jaay taakey ghreena o kora jaay. Keno kora jaabey na!! Kaaukey bhaalobasha maaney to ei na jey baktitto, shadheenota, mullobodh, ruchi shobkichhu bishorjon diye ?kleeblingo? hoye boshey thaka, taai na? Taaholey ghreena kora jaabey na keno? Dislike korar moto, avoid korar moto, hate korar moto kichhu jodi ghotey jaay keno taaholey takey ghreena kortey paarbo na!! Er ekti e bodhhoy uttor aachhey, ha, ghreena kora jaabey na jodi
?merudondoheen kleeblingo? hou. Aar shartho joriye aachhey shob kichhutei, shudhu bhaalobaashatei naa. Shobkichhutei shaartho jorano. Eta aalada korey chinta korar moto kono bishoy naa. Prokreeti?r ottonto shabhabik ekta niyom ei shartho. Shartho heen bhaalobasha aar shaarthopor bhaalobasha ebhabey chinta koratai onuchit.
Bhaalobashar maanushkey jey koto ghreena kora jaay taar udahoron hishebey ejugey Ershad er proti Zinat Hossain er attitude baa Sheikh Mujib er proti maanusher totkaleen monobhaab i ki jotheshto noy bojhar jonney?
Ebong etai reality.

Aasholey aamader mostishkey kotogulo bosta pocha jinish kobi-shahittik naam dharee koyekta shomaj shontrashee besh kowshol korey dhukiye dichchhey. Era shomaj thekey kono shikkha grohon korey na ulto shomaj key kichhu diye dhonno korar naamey slogan tuley 'shoreer aamar shiddhaanto aamar'. Ei udbhot lok gulo shahitter naamey aamader ruchikey nichey naamiye taader nongra haat diye bhorta baaniye shei oruchir bhorta aabar aamader i mukhey theley diye bolchhey, ?khau baahey, emon moja aar paabey na.? Aar aamra o mugdho hoye ek nishshashey gili taa, bhaabi 'bishshashey milaay bostu torkey bohudur'. Ki jonglee kotha!!! Torkey naaki shottikar er kono shomadhan aashey na. Torko maaney jukti, jukti tey shomadhan aashey na to kishey aashey? Ei jugey key bishshash korbey eshob kotha oi aahammok 'kobi' chhara jaara uchu nichu khana khondokey bhora Afganistan er geography'r moto chhop chhop daag e bhora "chaad" key tulona korey naaree'r mukher onirbochoniyo showndorjer shathey!! Eder lekhonee tei phutey uthey ?moorgi maarka? jeebon er ?chomotkaar lobhoniyo chhobi!! Aar shei lobhey paa bariye aamder bhai bon gulo astakurey aasroy ney ekdin.


People Discussion
Snow :
(Sunday, December 02, 2001)

Deri te holeo apnar lekha ta pelam. Aro age asha koresilam. E lekha ta amake aro koyek bar porte hobe. Tobe choncholo er porer lekha tate kintu or obosthan onek porishkar legese amar kase.. ki bolen ?

bd_KonkaBoti
(Sunday, December 02, 2001)

Kuashaa, thanks for nice write up.
kintu aapnar reference gulor shathey ekmot hote paarchi na. "Shorir aamr shiddhanto aamar" eta kono kobi shahittike'er kabbo dorshon ba illiusion noy! eta Nareeder Praaner aarti. ja thik moto janen na doya kore seta niye kotha bolben na!

aar Bhalobasha aar ghrina duto eki jinish, eta aamar nijer kotha noy, bikkhato mono bishleshok Sigmund Freud er kotha. maane hocche, ei dutoi khuub tibro feelings. bhalobasha jemon aamader concentration er onek tuku dokhol kore thake, grinao. aami jeta bujhate cheyehci seta holo: feelings duto eki rokom tibro. kauke bhalobashle aamra taake niye oneek romantic shopno dekhi, ghreena korle taake dhongsho korar jonno eki rokom bhabe chinta kori. ei.

kuashaa
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

KonkaBoti, kemon kaatchhey aapnar shomoy, okhondo obshor taai naa?

aapni bornomalar paath e eta porechhen, O tey Ojogor, AA tey Aam? naki emon porechhen O tey Obshor, AA tey Aakkromon!!
obshor e aakkromon er jonney prostut chhilam na. however, aakkromon to aakkromon e, boley koye aashey naa.

SF ki bolechhen aami jaani naa. uni jeta bolben shetakei Al Koran er baanee maantey hobey naaki! preethibee'r shomosto totteyi onnomot aachhey. SF er mot e maantey hobey keno chokh kaan bondho korey? aapnar prothom lekhatey eta bojha jaayni jey aapni 'bhaalobasha aar ghreena'r teebbrota key bojhatey chaichhen. jeta bojha giyechhey sheta holo bhaalobasha ebong ghreena ek i jinish. eta meney nitey paarbo naa. same jinish aar same teebbrota ki same? shurjer aalo aar chader aalo ki same?

shoreer aamar shiddhaanto aamar...eta kobi'r ukti naa sheta jaani, kintu bhaasha ta kobir. shey jaai hok, aami kobider onek ukti'r moto ei ukti ti o jey oshaar taai bojhanor cheshta korechhilam. aapnakey bojhatey paarlan naa, sheta bujhtey perechhi ekhon. ebong ei shathey eta o upolobdhi kortey paarlam jey naareeder praan er kotha aami aasholei jaani naa. jaanley eto bhugtey hoto na e duniyatey. ek jonomey. kibhabey jey jaani...?

kuashaa
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

KonkaBoti, kemon kaatchhey aapnar shomoy, okhondo obshor taai naa?

aapni bornomalar paath e eta porechhen, O tey Ojogor, AA tey Aam? naki emon porechhen O tey Obshor, AA tey Aakkromon!!
obshor e aakkromon er jonney prostut chhilam na. however, aakkromon to aakkromon e, boley koye aashey naa.

SF ki bolechhen aami jaani naa. uni jeta bolben shetakei Al Koran er baanee maantey hobey naaki! preethibee'r shomosto totteyi onnomot aachhey. SF er mot e maantey hobey keno chokh kaan bondho korey? aapnar prothom lekhatey eta bojha jaayni jey aapni 'bhaalobasha aar ghreena'r teebbrota key bojhatey chaichhen. jeta bojha giyechhey sheta holo bhaalobasha ebong ghreena ek i jinish. eta meney nitey paarbo naa. same jinish aar same teebbrota ki same? shurjer aalo aar chader aalo ki same?

shoreer aamar shiddhaanto aamar...eta kobi'r ukti naa sheta jaani, kintu bhaasha ta kobir. shey jaai hok, aami kobider onek ukti'r moto ei ukti ti o jey oshaar taai bojhanor cheshta korechhilam. aapnakey bojhatey paarlan naa, sheta bujhtey perechhi ekhon. ebong ei shathey eta o upolobdhi kortey paarlam jey naareeder praan er kotha aami aasholei jaani naa. jaanley eto bhugtey hoto na e duniyatey. ek jonomey. kibhabey jey jaani...?

kuashaa
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

Snow, aamar eta ekta General type lekha BB'r bondhuder motamoter upor focus korey. eta kono ekjonkey uddeshsho korey naa kintu bhaai. tobey Choncholo aarektu clear korechhen nijer obostha.
aar amar mot jaanar jonney opekkha koren jeney kreetoggo holam.


ferari_
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

Ondhokaare dorikeo shaap mone hoy .. bekhhatar dekhe dori ke dori mone korchi aakhon KonkaBoti

ferari_
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

switch on kore baati jaaliye debaar jonno dhonnobad

Snow :
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

Nah, konka vaia, apni emon vabe bolle to valo lage na. Shudu jara jane tarai jodi kotha bole ar jara jane na tara mukh bondho kore rakhe, tahole amra jara apnader kotha shune shune kisu shekhar ashay thaki tara shikhbo kotha theke ? Kuashaa jodi ei kotha na bolto ar apni jodi tar reply debar jonno apnar gyan ke bulletin board e prokash na korten, tahole to ami o bapar ta kono din jante partam na. Jene jene shudhu gyan ke nijer majhe stock kore rakhben na pls. Amader ke kisu bolen ar bolte den. Knowledge to karo personal monopoly noy.

Snow :
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

Nah, konka vaia, apni emon vabe bolle to valo lage na. Shudu jara jane tarai jodi kotha bole ar jara jane na tara mukh bondho kore rakhe, tahole amra jara apnader kotha shune shune kisu shekhar ashay thaki tara shikhbo kotha theke ? Kuashaa jodi ei kotha na bolto ar apni jodi tar reply debar jonno apnar gyan ke bulletin board e prokash na korten, tahole to ami o bapar ta kono din jante partam na. Jene jene shudhu gyan ke nijer majhe stock kore rakhben na pls. Amader ke kisu bolen ar bolte den. Knowledge to karo personal monopoly noy.

kuashaa
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

'moorgi maarka jeebon er ekta background aachhey. aapnader shathey share naa kortey paarley oi kotha tar moja ta puro pawa jaabey naa.

tokhon intermediate e pori. ekdin maathey football khelchhi hothat maather konaay duti morog-moorgee uttejito hoye bhaalobashtey shuru korlo. eta dekhey aamar ek friend (ekhon shey BTv'r ekjon naattokar) aamar dikey taakiye boley uthlo, 'ish, aamgo jeebon ta jodi ei rokom moorgee'r moto hoito! jokhon tokhon... .'

don't take it otherwise please.

kuashaa
(Monday, December 03, 2001)

'moorgi maarka jeebon er ekta background aachhey. aapnader shathey share naa kortey paarley oi kotha tar moja ta puro pawa jaabey naa.

tokhon intermediate e pori. ekdin maathey football khelchhi hothat maather konaay duti morog-moorgee uttejito hoye bhaalobashtey shuru korlo. eta dekhey aamar ek friend (ekhon shey BTv'r ekjon naattokar) aamar dikey taakiye boley uthlo, 'ish, aamgo jeebon ta jodi ei rokom moorgee'r moto hoito! jokhon tokhon... .'

don't take it otherwise please.

Snow :
(Monday, December 03, 2001)



Laboni
(Wednesday, December 05, 2001)

kuashaa, whats your profession, may I ask?

kuashaa
(Thursday, December 06, 2001)

be comfortable without knowing me first.

kuashaa
(Thursday, December 06, 2001)

be comfortable without knowing me first.


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