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Bulletins Bulletin : Published and Discussed
Date: Sunday, May 04, 2003
From: KonkaBoti
Subject:
ektukhani bhalobasha
Description:


After 21 years of marriage, I discovered a new way
of keeping alive the spark of love. A little while ago I had started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife's idea. "I know that you love her," she said one day, taking me by surprise. "But I love YOU," I protested. "I know, but you also love her."

>The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I
called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong,
are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that
a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.

>"I thought that it would be pleasant to pass some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment, then
said, "I would like that very much."

>That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She
had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that
she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled
from a face that was as radiant as an angel's. "I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were
impressed," she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting".

>We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entrées, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there
staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

>"It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she
said. "Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.
During the dinner we had an agreeable conversation -nothing extraordinary
but catching up on recent events of each others life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house
later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me
invite you". I agreed. "How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

>A few days later my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so
suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn't be there but, never-the-less, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your
wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you."


>At that moment I understood the importance of saying, in time: "I LOVE
YOU" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in
life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they
deserve, because these things cannot be put off till "some other time".



People Discussion
KonkaBoti
(Sunday, May 04, 2003)

I found this nice annecdoate somewhere, source unknown. Wanted to share this with you all. Thanks.

aryan
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

You know Konkaboti it¡Çs a great posting. I love this story¡Ä.even though felt sad to see Mom (in the story) is passed away may be I got emotional but it teaches us a lot. Wife should be like this ¡Äaffectionate, lovely as well as very true. Family is very important think and specially Mom ¡Äits reminds me those lovely days that I had with my mom as a son as well as a friend. I always miss her always and soon going to meet her again. And above all this, God is there to whom we all respect and love. Its really nice story and also defined your choice. Thanks to you !

aryan
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

You know Konkaboti it's a great posting. I love this story¡Ä.even though felt sad to see Mom (in the story) is passed away may be I got emotional but it teaches us a lot. Wife should be like this affectionate, lovely as well as very true. Family is very important think and specially Mom ¡ its reminds me those lovely days that I had with my mom as a son as well as a friend. I always miss her always and soon going to meet her again. And above all this, God is there to whom we all respect and love. Its really nice story and also defined your choice. Thanks to you...

aryan
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

Correction: 1st line ignore the special carrecter A ...
2nd line at the end igore think.

sarah
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

wow konka appi thanks for reminding us the importance of family and the importance of loving them too, a great piece of writing appi

virtual_dadu
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

u r just as u were to me and will remain as it is for ever.

virtual_dadu
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

u r just as u were to me and will remain as it is for ever.
May almighty be kind with u and bless u always.
u r unique by ur thaught and expression. keep it up at any cost.
""ur virtual dada""

Shondhaa
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

nice story konka.:-)

ArospO
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

Konka, Such a touchy posting...specially for me. I am that kind of a person who don't say I love you often...I don't remember when was the last time I told my mom that ( but I show her that I love her, hehe). And guess what, I just called her up and said I love her!
Thx Konka...
Kothay thako tumi ajkal Konkaboti? tomar sathe kokhono Eto Eto (heheh)kotha hoy ni...and I feel like I have missed out a lot..tobe jothotuku hoyeche, tar theke bolthe pari..U are full of bhalo-laga.
Thx again!


ArospO
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

Konka, Such a touchy posting...specially for me. I am that kind of a person who don't say I love you often...I don't remember when was the last time I told my mom that ( but I show her that I love her, hehe). And guess what, I just called her up and said I love her!
Thx Konka...
Kothay thako tumi ajkal Konkaboti? tomar sathe kokhono Eto Eto (heheh)kotha hoy ni...and I feel like I have missed out a lot..tobe jothotuku hoyeche, tar theke bolthe pari..U are full of bhalo-laga.
Thx again!


NetRomeo
(Monday, May 05, 2003)


I wanted to do something like this with my mom...when she was alive...but somehow, it didn't happen...not even once...
Now this posting reminds me of my failure...n pain once again...n I start hating Konka...


bushra
(Monday, May 05, 2003)

konka apu, onek din aage ma-k valo bolae ma kichukkhon obak hoe amar dike takiechilen. Tar por amar upor tar ovijog-er pahar dhoshie dilen !!! tokhon theke kokhono ma-k valo bolte hole ghor theke berubar age boli, ami firte firte ma shob vule jaan .
4/5 ta dept. er combined class hoto kon ekta subject-e. Ekdin class-e onno dept. er ochena ekta chele kolom chailo. class seshe onno dike chole giechilam. 2/3 ghonta por se jokhon khuje ber kore kolom-ta ferot dilo ami tokhon beparta hojom korchi; ekta kolom ferot dibar jonno kau emon honno hoe!!! take 'thanks' bolar iccha chilo, hoe utheni. jor hobar 4/5 din por se mara jae. 'Shuvo' namer se kheali chele-take jokhon mone pore tokhone tar sathe ek rokome oporadh-bodh mishe thake.

raj1003
(Thursday, May 08, 2003)

thank u 4 ur story.It doesn't matter where did u get it.its nice,wonderful and learnable.we should learn from this story.its really made me emotional.we should understand how important our family and friends.thank u again.

Rony Salman
(Thursday, May 08, 2003)

Konka, its really nice to see you back, B2k isn't the same without you!! Thanks for the awakening anecdote, this is some feeling that we all unquestionably believe in, but most of the time we just don't try hard enough to say it or show it! Such anecdote strikes us to realize how our lack of a bit of effort has us miss on some of the most wonderful aspect of life!!


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